Showing posts with label Christmas. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Christmas. Show all posts

Tuesday, November 29, 2011

Waiting with Mary

Having grown up a Baptist boy in Louisiana, I don't come from a faith tradition that has any sort of Mariology. In fact, we didn't quite know what to do with her. She was a passive figure in the manger scene, looking lovingly down at baby Jesus. She was receptive, the object of the Holy Spirit's affection. Not much was said about her. Of course, this was the South of the 1970s, pre-women's movement in the world dominated by men, in a denomination restrictive in the roles of women. I find that the Gospel writers didn't make a big fuss about her, and it is noted that Judaism of 2000 years ago did not place women on a pedestal either. But very early on in Christianity, we became reflective about who Jesus was, and what the reality of those implications were. As always, these reflections upon the divinity and humanity of Jesus are deepest in the face of heresy. As the church deepened its understanding of who Jesus was as his divinity was challenged, they quickly understood that Mary had given birth to God. Again, as Jesus' physical life came into question from heresy, the church's clarification of who Jesus was gave clarity to the role of Mary, Theotokos. Indeed, references to Mary as God bearer, or Theotokos occur in late first century Christianity. So from our earliest opportunity for reflection upon who Mary was, during the same time period as the Gospel of John was written, she has had a special place in Christendom. Today, 30 years removed from my childhood experiences, I find most, if not all, of the Protestant world has a greater appreciation of Mary and of women. As a Catholic, I am 35 years behind on appreciating Mary, but I'm working on it.

The Advent season is upon us, and we are invited to be reflective for the next few weeks as we prepare our hearts, souls and minds for the arrival of Jesus. The King is coming; he is to be laid in a manger. It is a good reflection to remember that the first person to wait for Jesus was Mary. My mind has been trained to see her in a white dress and a blue mantle, and that's okay. My vision of her waiting for the joyous arrival of her unborn son is of a woman 18, maybe 20 years old, a few years older than she actually was. In my mind's eye she rubs her belly with anticipation for she knows that soon, perhaps in a few weeks when they are in Bethlehem, Jesus will be coming. Like every good mother, he will mean everything to her and she will place him at the center of her attention and her life. She will birth him, nurse him, and nurture him. She will watch with pride as he grows, wonder and amazement at his ministry, and horror at his death. When the Holy Spirit comes upon the disciples at the dawn of the church, she is there.

But now, in this Advent season, she is waiting with anticipation for the arrival of Jesus. She is making preparations. I think she would have made preparations in her home for his arrival. Perhaps a nursery or a special place for Jesus to sleep. This is our call in the Advent season, to prepare a place for Jesus. So let's spend the next several weeks preparing ourselves for the arrival of our King. Happy Advent everyone.

Sunday, December 28, 2008

Weekend before Christmas







My little family spent the weekend before Christmas at Gulf Shores, Alabama. This was our first December trip, we usually go down in May or August. It was wonderful. The weather was mostly cooperative, and the town was virtually deserted. Imagine going into a Walmart 3 days before Christmas and not having to wait in line to check out, and you begin to see how few people were there. It was about as tranquil a weekend that a guy with two young kids could ask for. I did manage to say the Hours most days. I hope this December trip is the beginning of a life long tradition.

Wednesday, December 24, 2008

Prepare for the Birth of the Lord who comes to live in You

Book of Isaiah 9,1-6.The people who walked in darkness have seen a great light; Upon those who dwelt in the land of gloom a light has shone. You have brought them abundant joy and great rejoicing, As they rejoice before you as at the harvest, as men make merry when dividing spoils. For the yoke that burdened them, the pole on their shoulder, And the rod of their taskmaster you have smashed, as on the day of Midian. For every boot that tramped in battle, every cloak rolled in blood, will be burned as fuel for flames. For a child is born to us, a son is given us; upon his shoulder dominion rests. They name him Wonder-Counselor, God-Hero, Father-Forever, Prince of Peace. His dominion is vast and forever peaceful, From David's throne, and over his kingdom, which he confirms and sustains By judgment and justice, both now and forever. The zeal of the LORD of hosts will do this!

The Lord comes to us as a child, beckoning us to come to Him. We prepare our hearts to receive Him. Is His resting place in us as it should be? Are we clean? Have we cleaned the clutter of our minds? Of our hearts? What worldly things fill the space within us set aside since the beginning of time for the Christ Child. Is it last minute shopping trips, presents for the kids, the in-laws, the spouse? Have the desperate sales of the department stores turned Christmas into a watershed day of savings? The headlines read, "The biggest savings are promised to come the day after Christmas." So Christmas becomes the day of rest before the big shopping spree. Is there anyway to preserve our spirituality and prepare ourselves for the coming of Christ?

Tonight, He comes. Born in a manger, in complete poverty. Not even does He have a place to lay His head, but his family is to spend the night with the cows, sheep, goats, and other animals so blessed to witness this special and unique birth. God comes to us in a child, vulnerable and weak. He is the Prince of Peace, the Savior of the world. Open your hearts to Him, shut out all worldly things, give every gift you can to the poor, to others. Only keep what you really need, what you really want. Give the rest away so you don't become the possession of your things. Share your abundance with those in need. Make way for the Lord.